SETTLE DOWN, SETTLE DOWN. =)

Ok. So my last entry created a lil "pot stirrring" so I will edit, not retract, my comment about 75/25 dating.

What I'm really about is that the guy is well-mannered, chilvarous and wants to offer to pay/open/etc. etc. because he genuinely wants to! Whether or not I let him, is a different story. Of course I won't let him pay for everything! Show up with genuine offers and genuine feelings, and no one's complaining.

Therefore, I bring back an old lyrics: "So long as I'm living', true love I'll be givin', to you I'll be servin', cause you're so deservin'."

OK. Now the real subject of today's entry: FULFILLMENT.

Talkin to Annette online today, I was told to turn on Oprah cuz she was doin' fantasy weddings. I turn to Channel 7 and it's Oprah talking bout weddings and how she threw a few weddings for friends. La-di-da I watch and she goes on about reasons to have a wedding when you should have them. Lesson's learned from the Big O: get married when you feel like you don't even need a wedding, hence, it's not about the wedding, but about the love yall have already that's fully intact. It's about being fulfilled with yourself and in your personal life and not looking for it in some sort of event, or other person, or other out-of-body place. Can you say, HELL YEAH?

I think in life we're all subconsciously trying to find a way to feel fulfilled....this quest is obviously easier for some than others. The majority of us attempt to find fulfillment out side of ourselves and fail to realize.... you can't put your eggs into a basket that keeps changing with or without you. The only thing you can ever control is yourself and your own internal mind/self. You say go. You so no.

Anyways, the funny part of this story is.... Annette wanted me to watch the actual OPRAH show on Fantasy Weddings..but due to me living in LA and her living in SF, Oprah's on an hour earlier in LA...and I JUST HAPPENED to catch the news' feature story on OPRAH. HAR. HAR. It was destiny.

A Few Things Learned This Weekend....
and a few additions into my expansive expressions and quips...

and footnotes for my life. =)

"Put your passion into action."

"No crapping out."

Dairy is only for the strong. gastrically. *wink*

Good shoulders. Good arms. Makes us weak. Makes us putty at your fingertips.

Hence forth, you must go through Stage A before entering Stage B or Stage C. Once you skip a stage, THERE IS NO GOING BACK. You are ruined. Respect the stages, or be screwed. We have learned, unfortunately. *skess and jess's conclusion*

If I'm attracted to a stranger, chances are they are tall. They are white.
If you are shorter and I'm attracted to you, then that means we'd have to be friends already. Does that make sense?! hahah.

AND A COUPLE QUESTIONS??

Should short girls save the tall boys for the tall girls?

What is the guy/girl pay ratio when participating in the dating ritual? 75/25. Done! And anyways, what guys provide monetarily and what girls provide non-monetarily, all evens out. If these two participants are sane creatures.

Why is there no Desperate Housewives tonight?! Damn, AMA's.